Whenwe like someone, sometimes we only see the attributes about them thatwe want to see. He could seem charismatic and funny, and like a greatperson to get to know and spend time with. But how do you know if heis really the kind of person you want to get serious with? Does heshow potential as a guy you’d want to be in a relationship with? Itcan be hard to tell if a guy is willing to commit, or even if you’dwant him to. A guy could be great during the beginning stages ofcourtship, but end up being a pretty awful boyfriend. How can youknow if he is worth the effort and time? Check out these signs thathe is not boyfriend material.
Hespends a lot of time alone.
Ifhe spends a lot of time by himself, it is an indication that he issure of himself and independent. But it could also mean that he couldbe stuck in his ways and used to having things exactly like heprefers. This might not leave much room for him to be open minded toconsidering your preferences or desires.
Hesays “I” all the time.
Ifhe always says “I” during conversation, it could be a sign thathe is pretty into himself, and not really considerate of the worldaround him, or other people for that matter. If he is only talkingabout his day or what he is going to do this weekend from his ownperspective, he may not see much or a future with you, or think muchof you being in his present life either.
Youhave to ask him to help you out.
Theymay say chivalry is dead, but that doesn’t have to be the case withyour relationship. If a guy doesn’t offer to help you with a heavybag of groceries, or to open the door for you in any situation, heisn’t worth your time.
Hedoesn’t think the world of you.
Aguy that is really into you will think he just hit the figurativejackpot just by being with you. He won’t take your presence forgranted, and will realize just how lucky he is to have found you. Ifhe just looks at you like one of his options, this is a guaranteedsign that he would be a terrible boyfriend.
Heis really go with the flow.
It’snice to be with a guy who is down to earth and relaxed about things.But if he acts like he doesn’t care if you leave or stay, spendtime with him or not, or enjoy your time with him or hate it, hemight be a little too chill for a relationship.
He’snot on his A game.
If you are a woman with your stuff together, you need someone who is either as well put together as you, or even more so. This doesn’t mean he has to be filthy rich, or have everything figured out. But If you are with a guy who isn’t trying to be his best and has a lazy, underachieving lifestyle, he may not have what it takes to match your hustle and goal-getting perspective on life.
