Soyou’ve met someone new, and all you can see are hearts everytimeyou are around him. Your interaction with him seems like somethingstraight out of a fairytale. But something in the back of your mindis telling you that your new perfect guy could be a little tooperfect. But can there be such a thing as too perfect? Before you getwrapped up in your new love affair, here are some signs that the newguy you like is too good to be true.
Everyoneloves a compliment. But if your guy is coming on super strong withthe smooth, sweet talk, he may not be genuinely complimenting you. Hecould be trying to win your heart for the wrong reasons.
Thingsare progressing way too fast.
Ifhe seems like he is ready to commit before you even know his middlename, this is a sign that there may be an underlying problem underthe surface. He could merely be moving too fast and not know you wellenough to make a major commitment – or he could have a controllingside that you don’t know about.
Hehas no flaws, that you know of.
Anyonewho is so perfect that they seem to do or say no wrong, is likely toogood to be true. We all have flaws and weaknesses – its the realityof life and human nature. So if he doesn’t appear to have anyflaws, this likely means he is hiding them, and that is never a goodsign. You may not even be getting to know the real person behind theperfectly crafted exterior.
Hekeeps his phone in his hand at all times.
Aguy who can never leave his phone unattended has got something tohide. If he is super weird about his phone –suchas always having to take it with him even when he leaves a room for amoment –thisguy is probably playing the field and doesn’t want you to know whenother girls call or text him.
Heis super arrogant.
Thereis nothing wrong with a guy being confident. It is actually prettyattractive when someone is confident in who they are and what theybring to the table. But if his confidence borderlines arrogancebefore you’ve even gotten really serious in the relationship, youcould be in for a rude awakening down the line. He will likely becomemore arrogant and self-centered as he grows more comfortable withyou, which could leave little room for consideration of your feelingsand needs.
Henever calls you by your name.
Terms of endearment are adorable once you’ve gotten to know your partner. But using pet names takes getting to know them and finding a specific name that fits their personality. If your guy is constantly calling you generic pet names way too soon, this is a sign he is too good to be true. He is likely calling you a generic pet name so he doesn’t mistake your name for another girl that he is dating.