We’ve all seen plenty of romcoms, but when it comes to real life making someone like you is no easy task. The bigger crush you have on a guy, the harder it becomes to think straight and be yourself. Suddenly you start thinking that you are not good enough and try to come up with all sorts of tricks to get the attention of your loved one. While that may work to some extent, it can do more harm than good in the long run. You want to show how good you are, but don’t forget that it’s also important to be sincere and stay true to yourself, otherwise the mask you’ve created for the other person will become a role you have to play every day. In order to help you build the relationships of your dreams, we’ve gathered 8 simple ways to make the guy you like fall in love with you.
Listen to him
Communication is most important when you want to know more about each other, especially in the early stages of your relationship when you’ve just met, but want to keep on dating. Let your ego step aside for a bit and become the perfect listener that is genuinely interested in what he has to say. It’s all about paying attention!
Look your best, but don’t overdo it
When you fall for someone you naturally want him to like you. But don’t be quick to pick the hottest dresses from your wardrobe as you don’t want to send the wrong message. Just make sure your clothes and makeup emphasize your beauty the best way possible and maybe spend a little bit more time making your hair look perfect. Otherwise, you are beautiful as you are and he’ll definitely notice that.
If you’re really into someone, you need to let them know! For most people it’s hard to just come up and say the words in a straightforward manner, especially for women. Girls use subtler methods of body language and a whole set of gazes meant for different occasions. Use your arsenal wisely and don’t be too direct about your feelings, but don’t hide them either! Let the guy know you’re into him with small gestures of affection.
Psychologists say that if a guy makes you laugh – you’re a match made in heaven. We believe that too! Of course, your laughter shouldn’t be superficial, but if his humor really gets you – don’t be afraid to show it. Female laughter is incredibly addictive for men and produces all sorts of pleasant chemicals in their brains. That’s why laughing is a must!
People with good attitude are naturally attractive to possible future partners. Poor attitude and negativity are things you should really work through before you even start thinking about getting into a relationship. Make sure you are happy and content the way you are – that is the most attractive feature any person can have.
Become a good friend
We know the foreplay to building the relationship with a guy all too well – it’s a game that is old as the world itself. But what we often forget is that apart from flirting, teasing, and other tricks, you still need to build a friendship first if you want your relationship to last long. Become a good friend, be there for him when he needs it, share all good and bad that is in his life – and he’ll unavoidable fall in love with you.
Have you ever heard the expression: “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar?” That is exactly the case with men! Most guys like kind-hearted women and are easily attracted to sweet, good-natured ladies. So why not be like that? We all have a mean side, but it would be wise to turn off your inner critic at least for some time and show off your better, kinder side.
The number one advice from our list is simple, yet incredibly important – just be yourself! We all have fears that if we open up about our true thoughts and feelings people for some reason won’t like us. That is absolutely not true and the more sincere you are with people, the better relationships you will build with them. Pretending to be someone else will only lead to sadness, anger, and frustration, and that is something you do not want to experience when you are in love.